[Resolved]  Shaadi.com — Fake profiles / Lustful men

Like many other unsuspecting people I signed on and found that there is this person who is constantly bedding woman in the name of getting to know them. Having said this, it is especially easy for him to do this since he flashes the money and treats them nice for unsuspecting women to fall for him. Then he moves on to other unsuspecting woman constantly creating fresh profiles claiming that he has not met anybody compatible.

Recently, his profile id has been DELECIOUS and he is known by different names such as Anil, Dipen Patel etc etc etc.

Please be aware all those women out there...Do not get tempted by dine and wine....
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Aug 13, 2020
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It is very unfortunate that there are some members who misuse Shaadi.com services. We have zero tolerance policy on members who are not serious about matrimony. For us to take requisite action, we request you to write to us in detail at [protected]@shaadi.com.

We have taken cognizance of your complaint and assure you of our 100% assistance.

Regards,
Shaadi.com Customer Relations
i recently faced a horrible, rude man on shaadi chat.
his profile id is: kindandkeen
when you read his profile, he sounds like a gentleman...sweet, kind etc...genuine even.
but the guy has no picture in his profile.
one day he messaged me on shaadi's chat and i didnt entertain him. he kept bugging me and i said 'im sorry i dont chat with men who dont have their profile pictures up'...he asked 'why not?' and i explain 'well. coz its kinda unfair and rude for u to know who u r speaking to and for me to not know...so i am uncomfortable chatting with ppl without pictures'...
his response shocked me. he said 'welll u are ugly and black! go get yourself a dildo'
so ladies...this is what is out there...dont be fooled by 'sweetly written profiles'...behind them is possibly a sick, insecure and disturbed man!
pls do not accept any requests from kindandkeen (living in sydney australia).
i reported the misues to shaadi, asking them to completely disconnect this guy and his profile, but they said they will only issue a warning! sorry...not good enough shaadi...you don't sound like u are out to protect your members from abuse i[censored] r happy to give warnings for such intimidating situations!
veryvery disaapointed!
Dear Member,

Please be assured that Shaadi.com will never allow anyone to abuse or intimidate fellow members. Basis your complaint, we have now taken the required action i.e deleted the profile.

Please let us know the date and medium of communication (Live Help/ Voice/ E-mail help) when you first reported this issue to us as we are unable to trace your complaint. Please write to us in detail at [protected]@shaadi.com.

Rest assured of our complete assistance.

Regards,
Shaadi.com Customer Relations
I also got cheated on Shaadi.com. One profile was a complete fake. My bad, I wasted 4 months. Here you can't even know if the profile is Paid or not (atleast less chances of being fraud than free members). I have completely lost trust in this medium. Because of some losers, you don't feel like trusting anyone on this website. Such websites should entertain ONLY PAID customers and also get the profiles rechecked - Phones numbers and addresses. This way, people would have more trust and courage to meet alliances via such portals.
Dear Member

We strongly empathize with you and wish to inform that we will take strict action against the defaulting member. However, we require your co-operation and support in doing the same.

May we please request you to forward us the profile id and any relevant mails which would substantiate your complaint. You may forward the same as an attachment to [protected]@shaadi.com.

We value your membership with Shaadi.com and assure you that your prestige and privacy is our prime concern. Please note your identity will be protected.

We solicit your co-operation in maintaining Shaadi.com as a safe and secure platform for serious matrimonial seekers.

Sincerely
Shaadi.com Customer Relations
A lot of profiles are fake .The site has no way of filtering false profiles.Want a sample? Just search for guys listed under IAS/IFS profiles and you will see.The site is obsessed with money making.I reported a married man's profile they kept on asking for proof.They could have just called him up and asked him which they would not and the guy just stayed around.This site just doesn't have any ethics.Money is the key word.There are so many ways to control quality but they just want megabucks.
Dear BAJ1,

Please be assured that Shaadi.com is genuine. A profile cannot be considered as fake unless it is proved otherwise. Our goal is to provide quality meeting ground for all those who are serious about matrimony.

We take immediate action against profiles reported to us. Yes, there would be some cases where we would require evidence of misuse for us to proceed further.

I urge to write to us at [protected]@shaadi.com and revert with the profile ids of suspecting members. Rest assured of our prompt action.

Warm regards,
Shaadi.com Customer Relations
Why should we write to [protected]@shaadi.com? The replies from Shaadi.com Customer Relations are auto generated .They don't even remotely discuss the problem you report.They keep on assuring you that they will look into the matter and that from their side is solution enough.They cannot afford to lose any profiles.The desperation is to keep the numbers high never mind whatever the method.I had forwarded not one but a long list of dubious profiles and I never heard from them again.
They make enough money to be equaled with the Tatas and Mahinderas but what about ethics? Come on, if one can get away with it why bother? You will find that none of the good profiles ever respond, my friends also have also faced the same thing.These profiles will not proceed beyond accepting you on site and a lot of free members pay in false hope of contacting the same. The story behind the success is that it gives a platform to unscrupulous elements.I can show them their loopholes but please spare me their customercare which is their barricade against quality control.
Dear BAJ1,

Shaadi.com will never compromise on ethics.
Do let us know your contact information and we will help resolve your concerns.

Regards,
Shaadi.com Customer Relations
This reply itself is evidence.That there is a complaint gets registered with their web site what the complaint is about is never discussed because the replies are standard and fixed.Why do they need my contact information when this is a good enough platform to resolve issues? Anyway my email is mb.[protected]@gmail.com
Http://Shaadi.com is demanding passport and drivers license to verify birthdate, name and photo for a free profile after the 1st day, saying "Random check". They admit there is no complaint and no reasonable basis for demanding the id, neither is this questionable policy spelled out up front. Yet they say they will delete the profile in 48 hrs without compliance. Very aggressive and questionable business practices in this day of scamming. What stops them or someone using an email sniffer from intercepting you sensitive legal documents and using them to commit an act of fraud against you and your bank account? All you need to get a new passport is a photocopy of an old or lost one. Shaadi.com needs to come under the the govt scanner and be regulated. They are overstepping. It is up to the family to screen marriage prospects as they see fit. Just block all Nigerian ips and 90% of the problem is solved. Shaadi.com should have no right to demand id be sent insecurely like this. The act of doing so puts their consumers at more risk of fraud than the fraud they are trying to prevent.
Please all those women out there, this guy has been operating using [protected]@hotmail.co.uk, [protected]@hotmail.co.uk and more recently [protected]@hotmail.co.uk.

The two phone numbers he tends to use are [protected] and [protected].

His claims relating to his qualification, background are totally and completely false. He is very pursuasive and persistent even happy to visit the intended victims late at night fro sexual gratification.
Shaadi.com is piece of they create 80% of profiles fake girls and guys. You will hardly get any interest from girls once you paid membership price of $80 for 3 months.Once membership expires you will start getting lot of interestes from girls or guys if you are girl and they all are fake interestes by shaadi.com customer service agents Just to make you belive that if you pay again you will get girls contact and if you are fool enough to pay again guess what the girl will never reply you back because its fake profile or your interested will be canceled out.

I will not tell my name or id or anything. But I am very tall handsome guy never married. I never had hard time going out with girls but I wanted to find someone from India in same field. I have notice shaadi.com strategy and pattern of making money its such a disgrace and shame people who run this site.

I BET BUNCH O[censored]GLY SOUTH INDIANS ARE RUNNING ALL THESE SHENANINGANS & SCAMS STAY AWAY FROM SHAADI.COM PPL THEY ARE FAKE BIGGEST MONEY HOGGERS ONLINE
Hi,
I agree with the above complaints. I registered with shaadi.com in order to search a life parter, advised by my sister who was lucky enough to get a genuine person. But my experience was pretty opposite. The person I was in contact with this site is Mohammed Arif, he is a banker and a big time fraud. he made me n my family belive that he is serious abt marriage, but i can surely say that he is looking for other benefits from a girl n just want to do time pass. He is such a fraud person, he will share every possible personal things with u as i[censored] r the one he was looking for but later he will start showing arrogant nature and will drop u by pointing out finger on ur family as well. Be careful girls from this person and such fake people, who r in matrimony site for just time pass.
I was very disappointed from this matrimony site, though I understand that its not there fault but profile like mohammed arif from sambulpur a banker with yahoo id [protected]@yahoo.com force me not to believe in matrimony site anymore. this person is initially so sweet n shares so many personal things n will talk with parents as well, will do every possible thing to gain ur trust and show himself as a genuine person but the fact is he is just doing time pass n exploiting girls. N matrimony site is a easy way to get details of girls, as this forum is for marriage. he is a person with fake intention n a liar. I m sure that i m not the only girl who have faced this person. would like to warn all the girls not to get involved in relationship with this person and be careful from fake people like him.
I had a horrible experience on shaadi.com website as i came across a fake I.d. of a man who I later found out to be married.
His name is Manish Kumar originally from Patna, but claims to be staying in Delhi shahjan rd. He tells women that he is unmarried & has recently moved to India from Bangkok or Singapore, and is an owner of parle agro frooti franchise. He is already married & has three kids & has played with many women just to get a one night stand...
Please be careful of this man as he later blackmails women with lewd photos clicked.
I had recently an occasion whereby I got accepted by 2-3 girls on shaadi.com. It was weird for them to find guy like me and accept for marriage talks. I was cautious and looked up their name on facebook and both didn't exist on facebook. Well, they might not have an account, but these are mostly fake profiles who have only (1) photo in their profile and even if you ask your friend to send her an interest, she will accept it happily.
Guys, this is all fooling business run by this site. Save your asses from this. Keep your money in your own pocket and think hundred times before going for premium memberships on online matrimonials. Chances are high that you will be rejected by these profile after some amount of talks or dating - coz they didn't even mean marriage in the first place, they may be shaadi.com's own profiles accepting every other guy and making him buy their memberships. It is no longer trustable.
I totally agree to the complaints of the fake profiles. They create all the dreamy perfect profiles with perfect pictures to lure you in... make money... am a lady, and I feel majority or all of the good profiles in there are fake going no where... stay away from buying any paid memberships... I have wasted my money several times...
SHAADI.COM FULL OF FAKE PROFILES.

I have 4 bad experiences. Most of the UK profiles are fake. I strongly believe there is a big gang behind this. profiles who say they were doctors and they are Indians settled for many years in UK and they would visit me if I am ready for their proposal.

They asked my address and parents photographs. I got doubt and I have not given my original address. So I am safe.

I have wasted 2 months with them. Later they say they have to receive a benefit from their management for which they have to pay some amount of money which they demanded me to deposit in their account and also promise that they would return my money once they come to visit me. Of course no one is a fool to do such a thing.

Their phone numbers never work. The mobile number which they give cannot even receive SMS. They only kept me engaged with mail and chat and later on called me on phone demanding money.

I have reported this to the customer care and their profiles were deleted. That was the only action taken by shaadi.com. But I have asked them to go deep into investigation and curb the fraudster behind this. But they say that cannot be done from their end.

I once got a call from that person and the voice was like a girl's voice. So I doubt that they have created fake profiles in the name of girls also and they have provision in their telephone to speak like a girl. They call up from many numbers.

SO BEWARE BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS.

They never introduce their parents and they only say their mother has accepted. they are only interested in independent working girls so that they can demand money. Most of these profiles do not have father. They say their mom is living with a maid.

PLEASE DO NOT ENTERTAIN WHOSE PHONE IS NOT VERIFIED AND WHOSE PHONE NUMBER DOES NOT WORK AND WHOSE PHONE NUMBER DOES NOT SHOW UP IN GOOGLE SEARCH.

These are the numbers from which I received calls.
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]
[protected]

based on these numbers if anyone want to take up the investigation it would be helpful for the nation so that no other person fall prey to such people. Shaadi.com is not much helpful in probing and finding out the actual people behind this scam. THIS IS A HUGE SCAM GOING ON THIS SITE. PLEASE BEWARE.
One more thing guys and girls. Many people use fake pictures. If you have really started trusting some one. Please get it checked on skype/facetime. Is he/she is a same person(before meeting). I think this could help.

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