This day they did it. Todays episode gave a message:
"Girls must obey their SASURBARI, at any cost, no question of morality.
Girls are like a stone on chest of their parents after marriage.
After marriage it is Ok to tell lies in court to make an innocent a criminal."
Aili at first stood for justice, but then NO ONE IN HER HOUSE supported her. Not even her parents. Maybe this is how it goes on, but showing this on serial just gives a booster to this. The media can be a platform for protest against these medival behaviour.
So this shows, No matter how vile, how wrong, how criminal sasurbari decision's are, a BAHU(and her family) must OBEY that and everything the Sasurbari imposes on.Sasurbari comes first, justice to an innocent, law, all comes second.
All the Jhilik's family are spineless, cause being a JUDGE HE IS CONVINCING HIS WIFE TO NOT SUPPORT TRUTH. Later he will tell, " Ashchorjo! Tumi ektu miththa sakhkhi dite parbena?"
Ekjon Judge mithya sakhkhi dite bolche? Kemon judgement die esechen dadu sara jibone?Barita eto boro kivabe holo valoi bojha jache.
And Aili 's Sasurbari: The Earning member and Aili's Husband's say DOES NOT MATTER FOR AILI?
But lets dont get distracted. The serial has taken a bad turn. A completely negative, insulting, detoriating message to the married Bengali women.
" You, Married Bengali Women, are TOYS, PUPPETS, to the Sasurbari.You are a slave. You are not allowed to take decisions. You are not supposed to have an opinion. You are supposed to talk what you are told to.You are a pet. When Sasurbari says jump, you should ask how much high? If sasurbari does a crime, you and your family must support the sasurbari, OR ELSE..."
So if a Sasurbari says "Choto bou, ei Boma take oi garite rekhe eso to?" Tai korte hobe?
Ajker episode ta meyeder swadhinotar birudhdhe. Medival mentality ke proshroy dei. Meyeder Sasurbarir Putul hisabe dekhieche. Er birudhdhe protibad howa uchit. Eder Email ID joger korte hobe.
Ora eta pore ne. Facebook group thakle dekhte hobe.
By the way I am a 24+ Bengali Indian man. I found this demeaning to women. If women find this"You Bengali Married ...OR ELSE" OK, then they are spineless to their Sasurbari.
Write here if you agree.
PS: Dont say nonsense that "this is the reality" This is not reality.This is serial.They have no bindings to show this . If it was reality business then Jhilik would have been exposed as Pari long ago.
And this is not reality as well.
Many married women have guts and spine as well as their families. And to drive away the evil, we need to drive it out from everywhere.From our mind, from our culture, FROM THE SERIALS AND CINEMA.