HDFC Bank — Recruitment and payment issue

Address:	Lucknow, Uttar Pradesh, 226005
Website:	www.hdfc.com

I had applied for the profile of assistant manager in hdfc from a consultancy named monster which has send my resume to stepahead consultancy first then they charges me a fee of rs.2500 for registeration and 5699for doc verification.
Then they send my resume and docs to hdfc bank and one of their hr named mr. Himanshu from new delhi has been called me and told me about t&c
Then again one round of interview has been conducted that was telephonic
Then they charge rs.14500 for doc verification. Again i have receivded call from corporate office of hdfc mumbai for second round which i have cleared.. Then they told me that u have cleared all the telephonic round now there will face to face round on saturday.. But on the next day a call came and mr. Himashu told me to talk to account dept. That was mr. Anil.. He asked me to submit 25, 000 to open a account in hdfc so that all the amount which i have been submitted can be refunded because all the amnt are refundable.
Then any how i had managed and given to them.. Then on the next day mr. Anil asked to me to submit 11% tax acc. To rbi rule that was 16, 550.. Again i ahd submitted they told me everytime to give my douments but never given.. Then after this they asked me to submit 20, 000 as donation which i had also submitted.. Then they asked me to pay 22500 as a penalty charge because i have paid many amount late.. Because they told always asked me to submit at the moment and give me 1 or 2 hours to submit the amount.
Now i need your help.. To refund my amount