RBL Bank — debt collectors approaching my friends and relatives and spoiling my image

Address:

Hyderabad, Andhra Pradesh, 500045

I hold rbl credit card and i have outstanding amount to be paid to rbl. All my transactions and payments were very prompt and up to date.in aug 2017 iost my job and have undergone financial crises.in that period more than one year i have managed to pay the minimum amount of around rs.10000 every month to rbl. I managed to make the min amount for more than one and half year assuming that i will get the job and will clear all my dues. But unfortunately i was jobless form more than 18 months and i got exhausted with all my sources in finding finance. My position was very tough where in it has become very difficult to pay my kids school fees and even passed through very bad times for getting food items at home.in that situation i went to rbl begumpet branch in hyderabad and explained my complete situation to the vp collections. I visited couple of times to the bank and requested to give me some time til i get my job. Unfortunately every month collection executives use to come to my residence and i used to tell the same story. Now after 8 to 9 months, surprisingly all my friends and relatives getting calls from delhi and other places in india and telling them all that i owe amount to rbl and forcing them to pay that amount or forcing them to call me and settle the amount. All my relatives and friends are calling me and asking for the same. Am already going thru a very tough phase of life without jobless and now by this type of calls from debt collectors i lost peace of mind and lost all my good name and credibility in the society. I have been surviving only with the help of my friends and relatives from the last 2 years without job. Now after receiving these type of calls all my circle got spoiled and i lost everything. Kindly guide me how to handle this situation. I will pay the dues but i need some time till i get the job and i settle. Else suicide is the only option left for me.

Kindly help

Hyderabad.