Apr 04, 2016
Updated by Pooja7017 http://www.maxhealthcare.in/doctor/ann-simi-john
My boy friend has been taking treatment from Dr Ann Simi john a clinical psychologist (MPhil) in Max Gurgaon since last few years. I have never escorted my boyfriend neither I had personally took any sessions from her and had never visited max facility. It was my boyfriend who need treatment.
However in year 2014 while treating my boyfriend the doctor started confirming me of having BPD ( border line personally disorder) based on guy's stories during the sessions and started feeding the guy's Brain that he should get me treated immediately else my presence can harm him. She started convincing him to get me for a session with her.
The pressure from the doctor went to such an extend that in year 2015 I was forced to take one 1-hour skyup session from the doctor. We ended up having 3 hour long session. I was prescribed to visit a doctor as she identified depressive symptoms.
However later on I got to know that after that call she reconfirmed the guy of me being BPD just on the basis of one session. And told him 85% of BPD patients don't agree that they have BPD and never get treated.
recently once again she told him that if I don't get myself treated he should leave me as my decease BPD is non curable and is harmful, she further added that most BPD patients never accept that they have any disorder and hence never get to a stage of getting themselves treated. Hence he has no option but to leave his girl if she doesn't surrender for treatment.
She fed all this being fully aware that we have been around for a decade and had no intentions to leave each other rather we were finding out solutions for the guy's issues.
Doctor didn't feel responsible enough to get me physically diagnose or neither she could held social responsibility by weighing how such statements coming from a doctor can affect people's lives??
My question here is : how can a physiologist believe in stories of their patients and without ever meeting a 3rd person can declare them as a mental patient???
While A normal person knows that when we speak about our issues/stories always other's are perpetrators and we are poor innocent.
Isn't it's illegal to judge a person BPD on the basis of stories of their patients??
Isn't she aware that such statements coming from a register medical doctor hold a great impact on their patients??? And can be a mental harassment for the 3rd individual involved out side the walls of the doctors cabin???
Isn't it illegal and unethical on the doctors part to go beyond the treatment of their first hand patient and get into nerves of other people consistently for 2 years??
How ethical is that repeating again and again that BPD is not being treated in India???? And it's non curable decease ...defaming a person, her identity to this extent, to declare her a mental patient on basis of a 3 hour session ???? Don't you think such incident can have strong effects on someone's confidence level???
We sent our guy thinking she can cure him, we never knew she will turn the ring and will say we all are mad and guy has no issues.
We will not be surprise to find out more people like me suffering from doctors such actions!!!
now the condition is that guy don't trust diagnosis by any other doctor and the above mentioned doctor too refuses to diagnose the girl by herself...!!! Stating as of now she is not fully qualified to take BPD patients as she is still perusing studies in this area...!!!
now she has started saying that only DBT is the cure which only one doctor in whole India can do. So either you leave girl or take her to him or go abroad.
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