Indian Air Force — Emotionally cheated through matrimonial website

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Air Force employee cheats me by convincing he loves me continues speaking since May till now and finally concludes his parents are not ok I saw a 44 years Men's profile working in PSU/ Central with salary 14 to 16 lakh pa. Later after repeated discussions got to know he is in Indian Air Force . It matched my preferences hence I approached him in March 2020 first to request many of the details empty. He did not respond. We sent interest thinking let's talk and get details. He immediately responded with his what's app details. On 15 May 2020 early morning he connected with me on what's app. We spoke couple of times and found a good connection between each other. On 18 May he called me and said he is not 44 but 32 and had by mistake updated dob resulting in 44 age. I said then we can't go ahead since there was age gap. He said he connects well with me and doesn't mind age gap. He also said his parents will marry him anyone he says he wants to. We are from same community and caste. Almost same type family. There is no difference. I kept quiet after this for few days. He came back asking if I have forgotten him and he can't stop thinking about me. He called and convinced it is OK with age gap including his parents. He loves me and I am his girl. There are repeated calls and chats where he claims this. He also told me he stopped logging on to Bharat matrimony since he likes me and I am his girl. He said he is not looking for anyone and reconfirmed I am doing the same. I reciprocated I am declining all the proposals. We were very well connected he also pulled into ntimate talks many a times. He said he is coming in September to his home town and will meet me and will take things forward. On 25 Aug 2020 he blocked me on what's app. I gave few days and called him on 30 August he said there was some what's app error. However I could see him online from another number. He told me same he is not logging on to website and I am his girl and he is not logging on to website. He does not have time to call me the one girl he has. He said he will call me back. I gave few more days and on 3rd September pinged using another what's app number. It was just hi and how is work. After few days again I said hi and he did respond we exchanged about work he said busy. On this day he is already in his home town per my enquiry. I had to initiate enquiry from my side. Since we belong to neighbouring district it was easy to get a common friend. We enquired about his interests in proposal he was quiet to his friend. He was not expecting things would reach his friend. He In upset tone, calls me on 14 Sept and says he spoke to his parents and they are not OK due to age gap and I should move on. Also that hewill commit suicide if I try to reach his parents Today I am emotionally drained and upset and in depression. He changed his salary to 7 to 9 Lakhs in between I did not mind as it matches my criteria. However I also got to know he is not even 32 just 28 years old using his sweet talk techniques on me for months. He fooled me all throughout till he wanted as if this is genuine interest. I am pretty upset as on matrimonial websites no one controls this. I was believing him more because he is in Air Force and did not expect such lies. There are voice recordings and what's app chats saved in case required.