[Resolved] Shaadi.com — A member contacted and had relation but then | |||
Hello, I am 29 year old guy from Pune. I am a registered member of Shaadi.com. About 8 months back a girl (member of shaadi.com) contacted me and we started dating. She promised to marry me and we were almost in a livein relation. She is 37 and I am 29. She never wanted me to talk to her family about our relation, she said when the time will come we will get married. In these days as I liked her a lot and I have true feelings for her so I wanted to marry her unconditionally. So I went ahead and informed my parents about it and they are OK with this relation. But now she is saying that she just want a freindship with me but not marriage because we have a good age difference (which she never mind in 8 months when we were dating each other and always made promise to be togethor in life) Now I just want to know if there is any law by which I can have her in court and question that if she did not wanted to marry then why she spent 8 months togethor with me like Husband and wife. After this incident I have been in lot of pain and trauma which affected my work also. Because i never thought she had just came in my life for a time pass. Kindly suggest if I can do anything in this regard. (I am using fake name here because I dont want to create any problem for ger also but just want her to understand that this kind of act can lead into serious ending) Akash Was this information helpful? | |||
Aug 13, 2020 Complaint marked as Resolved | |||
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Yes, Help is there - You are an . Get over it.
Hello
I can't believe you did that. Someone meets you over a matrimony site and instead of talking to the parents, you go and start living married life...
and did u tell ur parents bout this girl who is ideally like your big sister..
dude you got punked big time..
Get over her, and find urself a nice wife but please hide ur stupidity..
and one more thing...
Next time think with ur brain and not ur dick!!
I can't believe you did that. Someone meets you over a matrimony site and instead of talking to the parents, you go and start living married life...
and did u tell ur parents bout this girl who is ideally like your big sister..
dude you got punked big time..
Get over her, and find urself a nice wife but please hide ur stupidity..
and one more thing...
Next time think with ur brain and not ur dick!!
what an you are.
don't mind but it's true.
she cheated you for fun.
ok, now you can take legal action against her and lodged an FIR against her for 1. Not Abiding Promice for Marriage (Since both are adult)
2. Cheating.
3. Using your position to gain social status.
4. Sexual harrasment.
5. Harrasment in public image.
6. False information in matrimonial site to lure someone like you.
7. Social enigma / loss of status
Since you are in relationship which you so-called "Live-in" relationship her motive is to marry you and your the same so you can sue her for that and charge her for social/mental and emotional damage you had.
Even if she agree to marry you your case remain firm to not marring you.
at last you just pissed off.
don't mind but it's true.
she cheated you for fun.
ok, now you can take legal action against her and lodged an FIR against her for 1. Not Abiding Promice for Marriage (Since both are adult)
2. Cheating.
3. Using your position to gain social status.
4. Sexual harrasment.
5. Harrasment in public image.
6. False information in matrimonial site to lure someone like you.
7. Social enigma / loss of status
Since you are in relationship which you so-called "Live-in" relationship her motive is to marry you and your the same so you can sue her for that and charge her for social/mental and emotional damage you had.
Even if she agree to marry you your case remain firm to not marring you.
at last you just pissed off.
Thank you all...yeah I concur with what you think I am...AN .
Yes I informed my family that I am in contact with a girl from Shaadi.com. And this girl was in contact with my family too, she use to talk to my elder sister, my brother, my niece.
Manoj Thank you very much your sugestion is what I was looking for from this forum.
Initially I did not meet her parents but asked several time because I thought she is matured enough to take any decision for her life..and she enetered in my life promising she only wants to marry me..in later stage she even started telling that our age difference is a concern for her family but still she would arrange a meeting with her father and will try to convince them for me.
Recently I meet his parents (Mom and Brother) but now they just want me to stop calling there numbers and forget her as she just meet me as a friend. This is what she is telling her parents now that she is just a friend of mine and I am just over obsessed.
Friends...Its been 3 months now and still she is all over me...I just dont want to see any other girl in my life now. Either she will come back or I will pet a dog than trust a women.
Thanks again for your true expressions...
Yes I informed my family that I am in contact with a girl from Shaadi.com. And this girl was in contact with my family too, she use to talk to my elder sister, my brother, my niece.
Manoj Thank you very much your sugestion is what I was looking for from this forum.
Initially I did not meet her parents but asked several time because I thought she is matured enough to take any decision for her life..and she enetered in my life promising she only wants to marry me..in later stage she even started telling that our age difference is a concern for her family but still she would arrange a meeting with her father and will try to convince them for me.
Recently I meet his parents (Mom and Brother) but now they just want me to stop calling there numbers and forget her as she just meet me as a friend. This is what she is telling her parents now that she is just a friend of mine and I am just over obsessed.
Friends...Its been 3 months now and still she is all over me...I just dont want to see any other girl in my life now. Either she will come back or I will pet a dog than trust a women.
Thanks again for your true expressions...
hi dude,
i agree with wat Manoj told u,
but c ur still young..u hav many years to live, don spend time in court case etc etc...
i agree u need to take action as manoj told, but this is not the age to spend time in court. better forget ur past n also that girl n try to start a new life with a new girl(younger that u).
even though i[censored] would hav got married to that 37 year old lady, do u think u both could hav given birt to a HEALTHY CHILD?? u might show me many examples like sachin tendulkar n his wife, but all the time things won go well..as per the medical terms n genetics wife elder than husband will lead to unhealthy child birth. maximum 3 yrs difference will do, but more that 5 yrs is not adviceable..
so again consult ur well wisher, think twice n decide smart n wicely
Happy future ahead.
god bless u.
i agree with wat Manoj told u,
but c ur still young..u hav many years to live, don spend time in court case etc etc...
i agree u need to take action as manoj told, but this is not the age to spend time in court. better forget ur past n also that girl n try to start a new life with a new girl(younger that u).
even though i[censored] would hav got married to that 37 year old lady, do u think u both could hav given birt to a HEALTHY CHILD?? u might show me many examples like sachin tendulkar n his wife, but all the time things won go well..as per the medical terms n genetics wife elder than husband will lead to unhealthy child birth. maximum 3 yrs difference will do, but more that 5 yrs is not adviceable..
so again consult ur well wisher, think twice n decide smart n wicely
Happy future ahead.
god bless u.
@ [protected]@ymail.com you mother ...if you need any help of that sort you callme you .
Thanks people...
I lost my job, had a hard time to find a new one. I started getting anxity attack and now things are not well. I am tired of this phrase...MOVE ON MOVE ON...damm I am not able to...I dont know if I am balanced anymore or lost it but one thing is certain...If you ever recieve this kind of treatment and you find that someone ditched you, decieved you after a long time affair...never you please repeat the same with others. I have not done anything wrong with any girl in my life but she did it because one left her after a long spend relationship. She has not only did this to me but to a lot of other guys but others whomever i know had just enjoyed their time with her like she want...but I was a wrong pray I guess.
but now noone be able to break my heart like this ever again, I lost fait and even started hating girls...
my request to all people who read this tread : "Please do not break trust, enjoy, play do fun how u want but please first understand with whom are you doing it...is that person capable of handle you decievings or not..else its hurt a lot feels like someone kicked your stomach.
anyways learned a lot from this experience but dont know when I will learn to MOVE ON.
Thanks people...
I lost my job, had a hard time to find a new one. I started getting anxity attack and now things are not well. I am tired of this phrase...MOVE ON MOVE ON...damm I am not able to...I dont know if I am balanced anymore or lost it but one thing is certain...If you ever recieve this kind of treatment and you find that someone ditched you, decieved you after a long time affair...never you please repeat the same with others. I have not done anything wrong with any girl in my life but she did it because one left her after a long spend relationship. She has not only did this to me but to a lot of other guys but others whomever i know had just enjoyed their time with her like she want...but I was a wrong pray I guess.
but now noone be able to break my heart like this ever again, I lost fait and even started hating girls...
my request to all people who read this tread : "Please do not break trust, enjoy, play do fun how u want but please first understand with whom are you doing it...is that person capable of handle you decievings or not..else its hurt a lot feels like someone kicked your stomach.
anyways learned a lot from this experience but dont know when I will learn to MOVE ON.
One of my friends in Chennai has had a similar experience on Shaadi. Ironically, it was a girl that duped him. This girl posted different profiles under the name of Wish100, Serendipitously_mine, and Ethereal_2010, etc. Her real name is Rehana Sayed Hussain. She also posts online on different websites with the name of Amanat S or Fatima or Fathima. She is from Chennai and her father runs a fake business called Reesha Food Projects, otherwise known as Reesha Impex, or aka Hassan Impex. God knows, why they keep changing the name of their business. Perhaps they keep changing the Reesha name to evade Sales Tax and Income Tax?
However, coming back to this person called Rehana Hussain aka Amanant S aka Fatima/Fathima Rehana, what she did was to look around to have CASUAL relationships and SEX with guys on the Internet and she used Shaadi. My friend from Chennai, had a CASUAL relationship with her; however, he was thinking that this girl was really in love with him and he really wanted to marry her. Turns out, she and her family plotted something else, and now Rehana Hussain is married to somebody else, and this is what they did: They went to Annanagar police station in Chennai and filed a false FIR/case against my client. My client has all the evidence to refute the charges of sexual harassment. They even bribed the cops in the Annanagar police station. However, the court has taken note of the chat transcripts, the mobile calls, text messages, etc., and this Hussain family is going to face the music when they come to the court.
Like you said, a lot of people on this site called Shaadi are only looking for some fun - given that many Indians are sexually repressed and like that. I'm a private detective, hired by my client's law firm to investigate and cull out information about this Hussain family that owns Reesha Food Projects/Reesha Impex/Hassan Impex (God knows many other businesses they have registered to evade Sales/Income Tax!). I'm trying to post this information out there so that other guys who have interacted with this family and this girl called Rehana Hussain aka Amanat S aka Fatima/Fathima Rehana and have been conned by them.
Please take care. Please stay away from these Indian websites. They are all fake and they're out there to just make money (typical Asians and Indians!). Duh.
Regards,
Raj Agnihotri
Private Investigator
Chennai
However, coming back to this person called Rehana Hussain aka Amanant S aka Fatima/Fathima Rehana, what she did was to look around to have CASUAL relationships and SEX with guys on the Internet and she used Shaadi. My friend from Chennai, had a CASUAL relationship with her; however, he was thinking that this girl was really in love with him and he really wanted to marry her. Turns out, she and her family plotted something else, and now Rehana Hussain is married to somebody else, and this is what they did: They went to Annanagar police station in Chennai and filed a false FIR/case against my client. My client has all the evidence to refute the charges of sexual harassment. They even bribed the cops in the Annanagar police station. However, the court has taken note of the chat transcripts, the mobile calls, text messages, etc., and this Hussain family is going to face the music when they come to the court.
Like you said, a lot of people on this site called Shaadi are only looking for some fun - given that many Indians are sexually repressed and like that. I'm a private detective, hired by my client's law firm to investigate and cull out information about this Hussain family that owns Reesha Food Projects/Reesha Impex/Hassan Impex (God knows many other businesses they have registered to evade Sales/Income Tax!). I'm trying to post this information out there so that other guys who have interacted with this family and this girl called Rehana Hussain aka Amanat S aka Fatima/Fathima Rehana and have been conned by them.
Please take care. Please stay away from these Indian websites. They are all fake and they're out there to just make money (typical Asians and Indians!). Duh.
Regards,
Raj Agnihotri
Private Investigator
Chennai
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